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Sep 2

outerspacecake:

love and support and celebrate fat girls who don’t have a booty or like in general fat girls with the fat in places that never get celebrated p l e a s e for the love of everything that is good in this world

like let’s not pretend curvy is a synonym for fat curvy is literally just this one specific socially acceptable way to be fat and I am getting increasingly frustrated about it

Sep 2

I was tagged by kurotokyo !

Rules: Just insert your answers to the questions below. Tag at least 10 followers

Name: Naomi
Nickname: Nao-Nao

Birthday: July 5th

Gender: Chick

Sexuality: Queer

Height: 5’6”

Time zone: GMT-5 (US/Canada EST)

What time and date is it there: September 2nd, 3:11 AM

Average hours of sleep I get each night: Night?? Sleep? Ha ha haha. I tend to sleep in 4-8 hour bursts whenever I happen to land on a pillow.

OTPs: Nagisa x Rei (Free!), Mako x Gamagori (Kill la Kill), Toph x Sokka (ATLA), Koujaku x Aoba (DMMD)

The last thing I Googled was: Coliseum Grinding Guide Flight Rising

First word that comes to mind: Boobs

What I last said to a family member: If husbands count, it was “I love you, have a good night - be safe!” If not, it was “Okay, see you, bro.”

One place that makes me happy and why: The Inn at the Falls in Bracebridge. I spent my honeymoon there, and despite medical problems I was having at the time, it is still the happiest place in my memories. I will always remember sitting in front of a crackling fireplace with my then-new hubby and munching Nanaimo bars together, with the wind whispering outside, just enjoying the atmosphere and each other’s company. It’s my happy place.

How many blankets I sleep under: I gotta have at least 2 on the bed at all times, but when it’s either the depths of winter or a night when the AC is cranked, then I pull out extras! I sometimes have as many as 4 blankets and sheets on my bed.

Favourite beverage: Canada Dry Ginger Ale

The last movie I watched in the cinema: How to Train Your Dragon 2

Something I plan on learning: How the hell to properly run a business

A piece of advice for all my followers: Be true to you, and be good to each other.

You have to listen to this song: Q.U.E.E.N. by Janelle Monae (Skip to 0:53 if you wanna get right to the song!)

My blog(s): Well, this one, and naomisartnook, and my filthy cartoon porn blog naomisnaughtynook… OH. And I also have a baking blog I might update again someday. Probably.

I tag: omicronus1326  autoknight01  mr-leach  tempusfidgets  avaomod  not-reality  der-stein  ask-drunkcelestia x-that-guy-x  friendlyneighborhoodbigdamnhero  

Sep 2

Friendly reminder that anyone born between 1985-1998 didn’t get their hogwarts letter because Voldemort’s ministry wiped out the record of muggleborns

(Source: tracey-hummel)

Sep 2

haildisney:

wherethe-magichappens:

christopher-whitelaw:

theswancaptain:

HE WAS GOING TO DIE AND HE USED HIS REMAINING STRENGTH TO FREE HER… THIS IS HOW YOU OTP

YOUR OTP COULD NEVER

I often see things online about how Eugene should have waited to be saved, then cut her hair, or that he shouldn’t have cut as much, etc. but I feel like those people are missing the entire point. 

Ok first of all, Eugene had waited for Rapunzel to heal him, who knows what would have happened, because Mother Gothel could have come and taken her away immediately. He instead makes the selfless decision with the little bit of strength that he has, to risk his own life in order to save Rapunzel. But more importantly: Eugene was selfish his entire life - mainly because nobody was ever looking out for him. He grew up poor and in an orphanage, so he had to be selfish in order to survive, which is why he turned to thieving. This moment is the moment where everything changes. It is the one time in his life that he puts someone else first. 

Second: The symbolism behind the fact that he cuts her hair should tell you everything. All of Rapunzel’s life the only person who she ever knew to love her, didn’t actually love her, but she loved her hair. Gothel was always shown looking, talking to and kissing Rapunzel’s hair, and not really ever Rapunzel herself. Eugene, on the other hand, fell in love with Rapunzel the PERSON. He saw her as another human being, and he saw her heart. That is why he cut her hair - her hair didn’t matter to him because the magic was INSIDE her. He knew that and thus knew that even as he died, she would live a happy life because of how beautiful she is on the inside. 

Also if you notice, several times throughout the film he pulls Rapunzel’s hair out of her face, he doesn’t care about the hair, he cares about her! Man, I honestly think Tangled has one of the best Disney love stories! In my opinion it’s up there with Beauty and the Beast, and Pocahontas.

(Source: disneyyandmore)

Sep 2

If you think women are crazy you’ve never had a dude go from hitting on you to literally threatening to kill you in the time it takes you to say “no thanks.”

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Kendra Wells (via belle-de-nuit)

Well this is fucking surreal

(via kendrawcandraw)

(Source: mysharona1987)

Sep 2
What if the person you were is not who you want to be?

Then you learn to grow and change.

Sep 2

threedollarwine:

crystalmethalicious:

I don’t think people realise how hard it is to re-discover the person you were before depression or even try to remember your own personality

and if you’ve had depression since early childhood you don’t even know if you have your own personality

you didn’t have time to be a person before depression

and it’s scary having no idea who you are

(Source: pixie-grotto)

Sep 2

the-poe-catcher:

okay Nintendo but consider this: i don’t have money

Sep 2

lambylin:

*blacklists a user*

*shows up on my recommendations*

*shows up on my recommended dash*

*shows up at my birthday party*

Sep 2

In the 1890s, when Freud was in the dawn of his career, he was struck by how many of his female patients were revealing childhood [sexual] victimization to him. Freud concluded that child sexual abuse was one of the major causes of emotional disturbances in adult women and wrote a brilliant and humane paper called “The Aetiology of Hysteria.” However, rather than receiving acclaim from his colleagues for his ground-breaking insights, Freud met with scorn. He was ridiculed for believing that men of excellent reputation (most of his patients came from upstanding homes) could be perpetrators of incest.
Within a few years, Freud buckled under this heavy pressure and recanted his conclusions. In their place he proposed the “Oedipus complex,” which became the foundation of modern psychology… Freud used this construct to conclude that the episodes of abuse his clients had revealed to him had never taken place; they were simply fantasies of events the women had wished for… This construct started a hundred-year history in the mental health field of blaming victims for the abuse perpetrated on them and outright discrediting of women’s and children’s reports of mistreatment by men.

- ― Lundy Bancroft
(via darling-wendy)

(Source: womensliberationfront)